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is an absolute must read!
Review by B.Mc. 11-1-11
I had difficulty putting this book down. The emotions and
torture this poor woman (Becky) endured is incredible. She is an
amazing survivor and I am so proud that she shared her story and
has turned this horrible nightmare of life into a positive by
helping so many that suffer at the hands of an abuser. An
amazing woman with an amazing story. This book should be in
every "battered women's shelter". After reading, they will find
strength and know they are certainly not alone and have nothing
"they" should be ashamed of. Thank you "Becky Conrad" for
writing this book.
I
hope others learn from this book, I did!
Review by J.K. 2-14-11
This book made me cry! I've been through some of the scenarios
and it pulled at my heartstrings! I was glad Becky moved on went
forward with her life without him in her life! I hope many
people learn from Becky's book! J.K.
Felt many emotions!
Reviewed by S.G. (1-31-11)
Becky's book made me angry at the husband. I wanted to punch him
out! I felt so badly for Becky for believing in him and trusting
him. It's a lesson to be learned. I'm proud of Becky for finally
standing up to him and getting out. He wasn't the type to
change. S.G.
The book helped me so much!
Review by S.B. (1-31-11)
Becky's first book helped me be much stronger, bolder and to be
more alert and happier. I learned to stand up for myself and to
hold my head up high, look in the mirror every day and to say
I'm a beautiful person and that I'm worth something. I am not a
door mat nor a slave to my (ex) husband! For this I appreciate
her book. I have read it four times and each time I learn
something new to help me out. For this I want to thank Becky
Conrad for writing her book! S.B.
Very helpful book!
Reviewed by R. M. (12-6-10)
Dear Becky, Thank you so much for writing your book! I could
relate to it immensely! A friend of mine gave it to me when she
learned I was experiencing a lot of abuse from my boyfriend. I
thought I could fix him. I thought I was always doing something
wrong. No, I can't fix him, and no it was not my fault! I admire
your courage to tell it like it was, and to get out of your
abusive relationship and move forward in your life. I loved all
the animal stories in it too! Thanks, R. M.
An Amazing Book!
Reviewed by Bev. (12-5-10)
This book was amazing. I could not put it
down! I can't wait to read more books by Becky Conrad.
She is such an amazing writer and a wonderful woman." Bev. N.
An encouraging book!
Reviewed by: J.P. (4/4/10)
Hi, Becky,
I read your book in two days! It was awesome! Thanks for sharing your life experiences with domestic violence and abuse. I'm sorry you had to go through what you did but your book helped me a lot to recognize things happening to me in my own life. I'm in the process of leaving my abusive husband. I'm done. He will not control my life anymore! Your book encouraged me to do so. Thanks so much! J.P.
A Must-read eye opener!
Reviewed by: Rebecca, Family Advocate-Head Start
(5/12/09)
The emotions I felt when reading THE
DOOR OF FAÇADE were indescribable. One minute I felt
sadness, anger, and tears, and the next true inspiration. I could not
put it down. You held me captive wondering what could possibly be next
and your accounts are written with such great detail, I began to feel as
if I were walking beside you only wishing there was something I could do
to stop it. I know these books will open the eyes, ears, and hearts of
anyone who may be living in a world of abuse, as well as those that may
know or suspect someone that is. Thank you, Becky, for sharing your
heart and life with us. Both THE DOOR
OF FAÇADE
and A BETTER DAY DAWNING are truly inspirational
and a must read. Rebecca, Family Advocate, Head Start
Your Book is a blessing!
Reviewed by: A.M. (5/4/09)
Dear Mrs. Conrad,
As a child, I remember cowering under a blanket praying for the end of the thunderstorm and the pain and confusion my parents' relationship caused. I come from a broken family due to the substance abuse that led to domestic violence.
But today, I almost smile upon those sufferings because they have made me focused and driven to be strong and independent.
Life, as it is laid before you, is not how you have to live it. This is the conclusion I have drawn from your novel,
"THE DOOR OF FAÇADE." From your experiences, I have learned that life is difficult, painful, even excruciating at times, but a woman's spirit can overcome any obstacle she is facing.
This story is one of the many blessings that enriches my life and clarifies how to take your life and all experiences, good and bad, and build your own story to be a blessing in the life of another. You don't sit around and feel sorry for yourself; you take situations and you change them. Those that you can't change, you accept, and let them change you, making you better and stronger. God will never hand you anything you cannot handle. Every experience you are faced with will develop the person you are supposed to become.
I was especially impacted by the illusion made to relationships between prehistoric men and women. It helped me realize that women are not just objects of male possession. No women deserves to be treated as such. It has become one of my life's missions to help other women realize that they are not the possession of a man but human beings meant to live meaningful and purposeful lives.
It will still take time, possibly the rest of my life, for wounds created by my father to heal. I pray the scars will remain. I pray they remain to serve as a reminder, to keep those emotions fresh in my mind so they are ready to help someone else overcome and not only survive, but also flourish. Not to cower from the storm, but learn to dance in the rain.
"THE DOOR OF FAÇADE" has served great purpose in my life. Thank you for your blessing.
Yours sincerely,
A.M.
The truth revealed!
Reviewed by: Donna (5/4/09)
I enjoyed the book "THE DOOR OF FAÇADE." I live in the town Bob was living in. I knew him and I had heard rumors about him, but didn't know if they were true. He was truly a sick man. I'm so glad you got away from him, but don't know how you put up with him for six years. I hope you have a happy life now, you deserve it. Donna
I Cried for You!
Reviewed by: Becky. B. (12/31/2008)
Hi Becky! I finished your first book on Christmas Eve and I can't count how many times I cried for you. The detail with which you can remember situations is gripping. Thank you for sharing your story with the world and may your book help end the circle of violence for other women. Becky B.
Opened My Eyes!
Reviewed by: A.R. (11/14/2008)
Hi Becky,
I just wanted to tell you how much you helped me with my abusive
relationship when I read your first book. You really opened my eyes! I
just didn't realize it was as bad as it was. Then, after I read your
sequel, I learned so much about forgiveness and I'm trying really hard
to get a better life for myself. Thanks so much for all the valuable
information on your web site and for your encouraging emails. God Bless
you, always. A. R.
A Must Read!
Reviewed by:
Joyce Bishop Morris (10/26/2008)
A gripping account of what it means to be under the control of another human being. This is a "must read" for anyone that finds themselves in this situation. There is hope, you can escape and you can survive.
-Joyce Bishop Morris Author of "The Sweet Annie Series"
A Wonderful Inspiration!
Reviewed by:
Vera (10/02/2008)
What a wonderful inspiration your books are! I carried them with me everywhere until I finished them.
Inspiring and Uplifting!
Reviewed by:
Janey (08/016/2008)
I read your first book and cried many tears for what you went through. I have also been a victim of abuse. Mine was sexual abuse as a child. You are an amazing person, you suffered and was treated so badly by Bob. He was horrible! What has been inspiring and uplifting for me was the day I met you in Oberlin at your book signing. It was like you knew and saw it on my face that I was very sad. You said "Hi!” You were very kind and smiled. I came over to your table and asked what your book was about. You starting sharing about your book and abuse. I whispered to you that I was a victim of sexual abuse as a child. You talked about your abuse and your book and how you made it out this abuse. I read your book as soon as I got home as I could not put it down. Your book gave me hope that I will get through my hard times and be healed. I plan on reading your next book, “A Better Day Dawning.” Keep up the great work helping other victims of domestic abuse. Your web site on abuse is awesome! Lots of important information. Thanks for all your encouraging words regarding my abuse. Your book "The Door of Façade”, has encouraged and inspired me in so many ways. I can be happy again. I am so happy that you have a caring husband now! Bless you! Janey
Should be Required Reading!
Reviewed by: Bon (07/16/2008)
I have read both books and found them to be inspirational, sad, moving, real, brave, and an important contribution to society. As a
registered nurse in a Boston Newborn ICU, I have witnessed people in terrible situations; who feel there is no hope and no way out. Over the years, domestic violence has become more exposed, yet still remains a dangerous and secret situation for many. This should be required reading for high school students; so they can be aware, understand and possibly prevent this cycle from continuing. WE owe that to our future generations. On a more personal note, Becky is my cousin. We were unaware of her
situation, and I feel sad that we didn't know. I know my father (her maternal uncle) would have intervened and put a stop to Bob. Silence is domestic violence's best friend. I recently had the pleasure of seeing Becky again after so many years. I am so very proud of her, and feel she is an inspiration for us all. Uncle "R" would be thrilled about the
contributions you are making in the lives of others. He believed all little girls were the greatest gifts of this world. My best to you and Ted... continue to take care of each other.
Love, Bon :)
This Book Was Amazing!
Reviewed by: Bev (07/14/2008)
This book was amazing. I could not put it down! I can't wait to read more books by Becky Conrad. She is such an amazing writer and a wonderful woman!
A Compelling True Story!
Reviewed by: Ann B. Keller (07/14/2008)
How many of us wear a social mask, putting forth the façade, the face of what we want others to see? The title of this novel is well suited to the story itself. From the moment that sweet young Becky meets handsome and rich Bob Dillough, she’s swept along on a romantic tsunami that promises she’ll live happily ever after. Becky’s “prince”, however, is far from perfect. Although Bob wines and dines his young bride, he is severely flawed. He drinks too much, lies, cheats on Becky and has more excuses than a tardy high school student. As Bob’s behavior turns increasingly violent, Becky starts looking for a way out of her predicament, even though she is assailed by guilt for her failing marriage. I held my breath when Bob literally shoved a gun into Becky’s face! For a few terrible moments, her life hung in the balance. Thankfully, Becky was able to escape Bob’s clutches and this book is a strong statement against domestic violence and abuse in all its forms. What makes The Door of Façade all the more compelling is that it is a true story - Becky’s story. I can’t wait to read her second novel to learn the good news!
- Ann B. Keller, Author/Screenwriter
Highly Inspirational!
Reviewed by: J.W. (03/10/2008)
I just wanted to let you
know how much you have inspired me after reading your first book. We met
at a book signing you had and we talked about domestic violence and
abuse. I shared some of what I went through with you. After a lot of
consideration, I decided to take out all the little boxes I had hidden
in the recesses of my mind and put them on paper. I wrote my story too.
It was very hard, especially having more nightmares again and recalling
so much, but I just wanted to let you know that I did it and I'm glad I
did because it was a release. Thanks, Becky for all your help and
inspiration for revealing your soul and helping others. J. W.
Helped Me Through Tough Times
Reviewed by: SK (12/21/2007)
Dear Becky, I love you my very good friend! I finally
finished the book! You really did help me through a lot of tough
times and you and I are survivors! God is good to us, and to all
other victims. Keep the faith. There is a light at the end of a
seemingly endless tunnel. We do deserve the best in life and
never forget you are so beautiful and that God created us in his
likeness. I want to tell you all again if it weren't for this
lovely lady, God only knows where I would be, if even alive for
that matter. Thanks again my friend and God Bless you, SK
Truly Amazing
Reviewed by: Heidi (7/19/2007)
This book is truly amazing. I commend Becky for her
courageousness and bravery. She endured horrific circumstances,
and she was still able to rise above. The book is very well
written with the intense portrayal of her life. I am a advocate
for victims of domestic violence, and I highly recommend this
book to anyone who has suffered from a domestic situation. Also,
the family members of the victim would benefit greatly from this
book. They can actually feel the agony of an abused person.
Everyone on the other side needs to seek some understanding, and
this book will allow them to do that. I can't wait for the
sequel!
Gives Hope For Us All
Reviewed by: Judie (4/18/2007)
I, as most readers will feel, was right there with Becky. What
great lessons on life. It can tear you apart but don't give in
and you can be an inspiration to others, just as Becky has been.
Couldn't wait to read the next chapter of her life.
A MUST READ
Reviewed by: Amanda (10/14/2006)
Becky Conrad's story is a real page turner. Becky tells her
story with great emotion, humor, and honesty. This book brought
me great hope for a brighter future, and brought me out of a
very dark place in my life. This book is a must read to all
women. I admire Becky for sharing her horrific story in hopes of
touching someone else's life. I know her mission was
accomplished.
Great Reading
Reviewed by: K. Taff (4/11/2006)
I read the book, and then my entire family read it. We
just kept passing it around. It was well written and I
would tell anyone to buy this book if they have ever known
anyone who has been abused or is now a victim of abuse.
Not only is it a good book to read, but it is helpful to those
whose lives are touched by violence or abuse. Be sure to
read her sequel when it comes out!
Brave Heart
Reviewed by: Jackie (3/16/2006)
This book describes with blatant honesty, a young girl so
in love with her "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing." This is a must read
for anyone having their FIRST doubts about someone they love.
Please don't hesitate, because these "Prince Charming's" NEVER
change. It's an addiction. Despite ALL the media on this
subject, this kind of power is still multiplying rapidly. As a
daughter of this kind of abuse, miraculously still married
myself, and a Mother of two sons, it was a definite eye-opener
to finally BREAK THE CYCLE to discover the REAL power of Love.
Real Love Frees your heart, your soul, your mind---always
gentle, never, ever FORCED in any way. Thanks for sharing your
Thrilling and Turbulent Roller Coaster Ride.
Door Review
Reviewed by: Lisa (7/23/2005)
Not only does this book teach us that just because a
person is good looking and successful in the career area, the
biggest lesson is that the facade lies within all relationships.
What we do to overcome the unbearable is also a valuable tool.
Becky Conrad supplies us with the hope that if we have the tool,
we can use it to overcome almost anything. The book is
creatively written with the respect that we can truly see inside
the author's mind with the little quoted asides into her
thinking. You will enjoy this book, it is a subject that we all
have heard about, yet some of us might not know how to handle
it! I can't wait until the sequel!
I was wife #2
Reviewed by: Kate (7/10/2005)
I read this book with great interest. I was also married to Bob
and believe every word that Becky wrote. My heart goes out to
her as she was young and tolerated much more than I had. He was
abusive to me and I took my daughter and left. I have been
married to my husband for 33 years and my daughter has grown to
be a wonderful woman and a great mother.
Becky Conrad, a wonderful woman and writer!
Reviewed by: Marcy (5/23/2005)
I could not put this book down. It was amazing reading of this
woman's life and Becky Conrad is such a good writer that I was
able to get a great feel for each character. Even if the topic
doesn't relate to your life I would recommend reading this just
for the enjoyment. I look forward to more wonderful books by
Becky Conrad!!
Riveting!
Reviewed by: Elizabeth (10/17/2004)
A must read book-a real page-turner! This book shows compassion
and humor, violence and abuse...it tore at my heart! Becky is
truly a survivor!
 Door
of Façade
Reviewed by: Shelley (9/1/2004)
Becky's story is heartbreaking, but one of courage for a young
woman who finally leaves her abusive relationship. I feel the
author dug deep into her soul to bring out the feelings from
long ago and bring the pages to life with this story.
A
survivor's story
Reviewed by: Dolly (8/11/2004)
Becky Conrad is courageous and brave to share her story. Above
all, she is a survivor! I was riveted to this book and read in a
couple days. It welled up my compassion and broadened my mind.
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